Women like a tea bags

Women are like tea bags, you never know how strong they are until they are in hot water. - Nancy Reagen-

How true, I like this quote, As an old saying " women is a weak creature so that men have to protect them" well, I'm not really agree with this. God did not create women as a weak creature, but as a helper for a man. And as a helper, it must be stronger than the one that she help.

Sometime I feel, that I have enough, I'm tired of all the struggle, the problem that come to my life, I'm tired with all the deadline and working pressure. I just want to have a peaceful happy life as a fairytale life. But I do realize that kind of life will not make me the way I am today.

I read so many times, I say so many times that in time of fire, we have our character shaped and refined.

Every time the difficulties stop by in my life, I always force myself to see the what part of my character that need to be refine. That way easier for me to move forward in the storm. Some of my friends say that my life is like a jet coaster going up and down so fast. She told me that that kind of life is too hard for her, if she has to be in my position. It made me think, why God allow me to go through all the storm of life like that, I was thinking so unfortunate. But as the opposite, I am lucky to have the opportunity to grow stronger in the hot water, in the fire. I'm lucky that out of the fire a walk as a winner.

God allow all the bad circumstances in my life to make me a better person.